Category Archives: Daily Life

Day to day happenings, the usual stuff, about me and life

Tomorrow is My Birthday

Last year I turned 50. It was a liberating birthday, although a bit subdued because of the first anniversary of 911. I had had higher hopes for this one. I am not one who makes a big deal out of birthdays or holidays, but do like a small token of rememberence.

The week started off with a hurried trip to San Fransisco, for a medical test for my Russel. We don’t know anything yet, so stress is a bit high to say the least. And that pall over shadows everything right now. Until we know what we are dealing with i am not going to divulge any more details.

But today was a good day. Last night i took some Ativan (sleep aid my husband got last week from his doctor)… and lo and behold I SLEPT all night. I feel rested for the first time in months.
I walked with Helen, my 75 year old neighbor and close friend. Then I went out and finally bought a pair of boots to replace my 15 year HiTecs… I got black New Balance..pic coming.
Time will tell if they fit well with my funny feet.(NOT)

I decided to make southwestern sytle corn bread and a minnestroni stew for dinner. Not one of R’s favorites but i like it, and i was the one cooking. It turned out good.

Then a knock on the door.. and my neighbor Ian has brought over a blueberry/strawberry pie and whipped cream! yummmmm!! , from his mother Linda … And what a surprise! An early birthday remembering… warms the heart, ya know?

Tomorrow we go to Eureka for the day, hope to catch a good movie. Then we meet up with friends Charlie & Cristin for sushi dinner at Tomo’s in Arcata. That will be way fun. More about that tomorrow.

And last night a cyber-friend, Suzanne, called to wish us well. That was really special and made me feel loved. Thanks Suzanne.

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Farmers Market

I took some pictures at Garberville’s Farmer’s Market… not ready to upload them just yet. Many are of some most wonderful cacti and succulents, from Catching Cactus & Succulents, that i have ever seen. They have a wonderful sense of display and style.
I will post pics sometime soon.

The reason i can’t post right now, is that i just found out we need to go to San Fransisco on Monday.. and may be gone several days. This is not fun trip and i have a ton of things to do before then. So the blog and the rest of my life will be on hold for awhile.

Some white light about now would be great.

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About

In the early days of blogging, it was much more about communicating with and networking with others. Back in those days there was something that showed up on almost everyone’s blog, 100 Things About Me.

I wrote this 100 Things in 2003 when my first Movable Type blog went live. I will be updating it sometime (HA!), but for now I am just reprinting it here. (this was April 2010, when I switched to WordPress)

Slightly updated 7 December 2012:

  1. I was born with Strep throat and given antibiotics when less than 24 hours old.
  2. The end of my right index finger was cut off by a door in the third grade.
  3. My birthday is 9-11.
  4. I had rheumatic fever in the third grade (all of it), my teacher brought my assignments to the house. The doctor also came to give me shots daily for awhile.
  5. I had it again in 7th grade and as a senior and one other time since then.
  6. I also had to take speech therapy, couldn’t pronounce my ‘r’s.
  7. I (still) drive a ’71 VW bus. (bus gone June 2006) 🙁
  8. I was the school disc jockey for all the dances.
  9. I have no children.
  10. I married for the first (and only) time when I was 42.
  11. I love textiles.
  12. Some would call me a bag lady…I love bags, blankets, belts, baskets and beads.
  13. I know how to make pine-needle baskets.
  14. The first computer I ever used was ours in 1998.
  15. I taught myself, from online tuts, all I know about hand coding.
  16. I have never used a wysiwyg editor.
  17. I have owned 3 VWs.
  18. I weighed 100#’s until i was 36… it’s all up scale since then.
  19. I love movies.
  20. I am a cat person. The cat in my life is named Kaya. (Kaya died August 2009)
  21. Virgo/Leo rising/Gemini moon. Dragon.
  22. I felt liberated when i turned 50.
  23. My favorite scent is white sage, with New Mexico cedar running close second.
  24. I have never colored my hair.
  25. I was voted ‘best-dancer’ for the high school year book.
  26. I have contact (rarely) with only one person who I went to high school with.
  27. I graduated in the top 10 (only 80 kids!) in 1970.
  28. Sex, drugs and rock and roll was the anthem of the time, mine was God, Love and LSD, with lots of rock and roll in the mix.
  29. I moved out of my parents home a couple days after graduation, when i was 17.
  30. My second car was a new Chevy Nova in 1971. It was fast.
  31. My third car (in 1979) was a ’73 VW beetle, light blue.
  32. I drove it during the 1980 blizzard to Boulder, Colorado, finally leaving Michigan.
  33. I figured from the time i left home until i moved to where i am now, I had moved, either from house to house or location to location every year and a half.
  34. I have lived in this one room house for 12+ years, 11 with my husband Russel. (We lived there for 16 years!)
  35. I know how to live in a small space … thanks in part to living for years in VW buses.
  36. I own an 18 foot tipi…used it as a summer home on the land where we are building our house.
  37. I know how to crochet, the last thing i made was a baby blanket, about 5 years ago.
  38. I have hooked rugs and made crewel wall hangings.
  39. I do bead-work…mostly with seed beads in the peyote stitch for necklaces.
  40. I love flannel and real cotton chenille.
  41. I belong to the Native American Church, although i haven’t sat up in quite awhile. (No, I am not a Native American.)
  42. I know how to read maps, AAA trained me well.
  43. I have worked in or managed 4 natural foods stores, the first one in the mid-to-late 70’s.
  44. I quit eating meat in the early ’70s (I think ’74), this was in part due to a PBB scare in Michigan’s beef and dairy.
  45. I started eating fish again, in ’82 (health reasons) and chicken & turkey (husband reasons) in ’92. I still haven’t touched beef. I have never eaten pork (with the exception of bacon occasionally in a restaurant).
  46. I love to swim in rivers with lots of granite rocks, like the Yuba River.
  47. My favorite summer fabric is woven rayon batik dyed from Bali.
  48. I wear dresses, causal, sun, lounge… flowing comfort.
  49. I have driven from Michigan to Colorado to California and back several times, different routes, always in VW’s.
  50. I couldn’t do that now, not in a VW anyway… i need more comfort.
  51. I do fly, but really don’t like it at all. It hurts in many ways.
  52. I spent 2 weeks at a beach town in Argentina by myself. I do not have good Spanish. It was fun.
  53. I have been to the highest lake in the world, Lake Titicaca in Bolivia.
  54. 3 months in South America wasn’t enough time, not even.
  55. 3 weeks in Guatemala was way too short.
  56. Did I mention i love textiles? Bolivia and Guatemala have some of the most impressive textiles, I have several boxes full. Now with digital camera in hand, I plan to photograph them.
  57. I haven’t worn makeup since 1972.
  58. I am allergic to penicillin and sulfa drugs, due to over use when younger.
  59. I have had long hair, to the middle of my back, since 1970.
  60. My sister died at 31, in 1981, of cancer.
  61. My mother felt guilty, and her cancer which was in remission, came back. She died in 1986.
  62. I miss having a sister (we were never close) and a mom.
  63. I like my Dad.
  64. My husband and my father are both Sagitarians.
  65. I love cheese.
  66. I tend to ‘tell it like it is’ … being diplomatic is something i have yet to learn.
  67. People ask me to ‘pack’ for them… i am very organized.
  68. I have studied and practiced astrology, palmistry, and the tarot.
  69. Also herbology, iridology, shiatsu massage, reflexology, and macrobiotics.
  70. I started seeking out ORGANICALLY GROWN food in the early ’80’s.
  71. I have been to 3 Rainbow Gatherings.
  72. I have been to hundreds of concerts.
  73. I have seen Bruce Cockburn at least 20 30 times, with more to come.
  74. I felt the Loma Prieta Earthquake, I lived in San Anselmo in 1989. Rock and Roll.
  75. I am a good friend.
  76. I never went to college.
  77. I finally pierced my ears around 1985 ish, professionally. The first time in the the ’60’s was with ice – a needle- and a potato! I passed out. I wore earrings for about 7 years, now the holes have closed.
  78. I love succulents..non spiny cactus.
  79. We are building our house off the grid. But we will have alternative power sources. (moved in in 2006)
  80. I am loved and I am told I am loved daily by my husband. 🙂
  81. I use (not intentionally) malapropisms.
  82. I also tend to use/create mixed metaphors.
  83. I like to garden.
  84. I am self-conscious in front of large groups, mostly.
  85. I can be judgmental & critical, especially of myself.
  86. Tact, I have very little of it, but I am working on it.
  87. I don’t laugh enough.
  88. My husband says I have no humor.
  89. That’s not true, I just don’t laugh at his jokes!
  90. I need 9 hours sleep to function well.
  91. I want to learn how to take great pictures with my digital camera, Canon G3.
  92. I sleep on my left side mostly.
  93. I love Reggae, roots reggae.
  94. I love mountains, wish I lived at a higher altitude.
  95. I am honest.
  96. I want to learn php, more css, and lots more web dev tools.
  97. I like to walk.
  98. I love my husband and my cat.
  99. I need to love myself more.
  100. It took me way to long to complete this list!

Weather Cool Down Day

Finally a day of cool temps and clouds a good day to run the oven. I started early with baking zucchini breads. Then went to the farmers market and Chautauqua the local organic food store, to get some more progest cream. Came home and made an Italian tomato sauce.. all organic and all from my garden or friends gardens. And that is to be used later today when i put together an Eggplant Parmesan.
Both of these recipes are straight from the Moosewood Cookbook,
which is by far my favorite cookbook. I am not much of a cook, but following her recipes is a breeze and makes me look good 🙂

The cooler weather also reminds us here in the hills that the time is upon us to get the firewood in or covered for the rains.
Harvests are happening and will continue for another month or so, but getting the gardens ready for bed can’t start too soon.
Making sure you have enough rock on the roads/driveways is a good thing.
It seems like we barely had a summer.. although next week we are suppose to have triple digit weather again !

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Down Day

Well isn’t this the pits … it’s 100 degrees out again.

I didn’t sleep again last night and to add to it all my sinuses plugged up. Not sure why really, wrong food combinations? Sudden allergy onset? but needless to say this morning they started draining and draining and drianing… you get the picture.

We had to go to Eureka (again) so i took some benedryl and ephedrine… and have been totally out of it all day and still can’t breathe well in between the blowing. Sure hope this goes away as fast as it came in.

I hate losing days this way. It is such a waste of precious time.
I can’t think clearly so trying to work on code implementation is a joke. And it’s too hot to do anything outside.

Ok, sorry, I’ll quit whining now.
🙁

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Hot Flashes

Well I always knew this time would come. I did a lot of research in my 40’s around peri-menopause. I added certain supplements to my diet hoping to NOT have to go through an intense menopause.

So far, it is not ..really intense i mean. But I skipped a cycle, 3 weeks and counting, and for those 3 weeks i have been flashing. Not as bad as many have described to me, but enough to keep me from having a full nights sleep..or for that matter, more than 2 hours at a time. I wake up, and watch the clock almost every hour. The tiredness is getting to me, more than the actual sweating and flashing. I feel different… fatigue i guess.

A friend reminded me of progest cream. I started using that again yesterday in the hopes that it would help some.

Any way, i hope the blood has stopped for good, and i will deal with the others changes my body is going through. I started Curves last year, but didn’t keep going. I walk daily and try to swim 3x a week. I need weight training and cardio the most, and hope i get back into Curves this winter or find another method of exercising when the rains hit. I want to drop at least another 20 pounds, 30 would be better still.

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Not Good News

We have a ’90 Toyota extcab pickup.. it is our main vehicle. Russel needs it for work and we need it to drive out to our home in the hills. I have a ’71 VW bus that is still running but stays close to home (town house). The Toyota was showered with funds earlier this year..just to make it better, nothing was broke.

Now though, it has an oil leak, we thought rear-main seal…ouch $800..but NOOOOOOOOOO… it’s leaking in the head gaskets…. we’re ok as long as we keep the oil up, and it stays leaking where it is, down a gully in the engine wall and out the back, but to fix… a new rebuilt engine is $5 grand. 🙁

We are not happy.
We cannot buy a new car.
We will have to fix this one.

That’s my petty gripe for the month i think.

This means that I can put away plans for the new computer..
this one is a PII 233mz (slow) 4gig hd 314 ram. Old. Dinosaur. Not even a cd burner (I may have to change that though if no new system is in sight). I need storage for my digital photos.. I have a zip drive, but those little buggers are expensive too, and fill up fast as I only have 100mbs ones.

This means that the trip to visit 82 year old Dad in Michigan (i am in California) won’t be happening any time soon either.

Oh well, I know it could be much worse .. it’s only money and only a truck. But it does suck.

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